If we define a basis or background of which we can see trustworthy with our stable income or family’s life, we could say that our happiness generally is composed with deleting of all sufferings and having mindset blocking any unnecessary trespassing from going on to attack us and keep away from any sort of adversity.

For realizing its standard hope, we presumably regard happiness as so precious and important value.

But actually, we either experience of feeling very many gaps between individually trustworthy values around happiness and generally spread social common sense oriented one.

Especially, in terms of job, as choosing way for each oneself and way of life for taking to each oneself frequently make disharmony mutually, rural traditional feudalistic idea around life’s value around society concern and life view as the way to understand society itself, around family and job, and urban or city, outskirt, suburban, each area has own distinct idea around these and all are mutually very different, if we decide to locate own residence and find the job for survival, each choosing must confront its difference, to other ones around our residence or work and either to myself with them.

And moreover, when we individually are making up our own mind about something, that sort of tough gap must be seen to us, toward some matters, we must feel so old style illusionistic delusive.

At a meaning, ideally declared reality manifested by politicians or so and real realized aspect of society must be in crucial gap usually whole over the world.

At a meaning, subjunctive mood can be set only with never feasible thing we confront in supposition, thus if we have individually already made up own mind, any sort of conventional idea must work anywhere, as the disturbance to our mind.

With its truth, if there’s someone who thinks he or she is happy, on the contrary to other ones’ general view to the one, that one’s happiness is distinct to the one, and nobody around the one can be unaware of it, we can see no problem, of course, with the condition that we can do so well in any other different idea.
With its example, we can see that anybody’s self consciously seeing and individual view could never be compared with any other one’s it, only its view is the important.

Of course, for meeting to judge or realize the room to think it so correct, we must face all problematic daily experiences around own gap to the area’s thinking style or so.

Of course, now society, as far as concerned with urban life in condominium or so, e.g. job using only internet or so, surely never contacting to people, we can hardly to survive only by ourselves alone, but even if the income would be gotten with that sort of life, local community’s human relation must be accompanied with our own individual life.

Thereby, we are always in a situation between what we must serve to society or community and what we hope to meet any ideal idea around life, in fact so tough issues around our own habitually surviving local community makes discord to own happy life view, that gap or discord must annoy us, in solving these, we must go on to our own future.
In doing everything we assess our own life’s value and happiness gotten to us privately, coz so many things we must attend and obliged to harmonize even to never so advocating reality or ideas, in other words any sort of harmony is anytime created so arbitrarily with all members of society. In it we only can understand own happiness.

Many things indispensably demanded in society must force us create arbitrary harmony, it is the surviving true reality. But we should never spend any regretful life even in so tough reality, there is our truly missioned life’s doing will to realize own happiness developing our own life in society.

In other words, both regret and satisfaction in fulfilling everything at a degree we can evaluate have both so individually satisfactory result and never so it, and publicly satisfactory result and never so it, there is our evaluation or assessment to our judgement to happiness.

Selfish idea met happiness is never always our true happiness, but simultaneously life only serving and contributing to society or community in killing all own desire must be so tough, that allotment either must be so important.
Next chance, I would debate that balance at this series.
(to be continued)

(Dec. 20th. 2019, Jan. 10th. 2020)