People are unconscious to be narrow-minded to the one whom is never concerned with their own happiness and safe of their life.
In other words, people are so cold to lone wolf, coz that one is apt to never be so generous to them, but it could be caused from their own circumstance with serious situation for him or her.

People easily can have the idea that that one must be so suspicious as outcast of the society, with only first impression, of course degee to rely on first impression is so savage, that kind of society would be apt to present in local community, but if the society has no introspection so completely its community was so rough and never being in any civilized idea, we could see so.
But even an individual ones’ cases, we often witness that kind of coldness in our society in daily life of us.

Thus, human mind warmth could be evidenced or evaluated with the behavior to the other people especially strangers or unknown to them, in no connection with own degree whether being happy or unhappy for the evidencers or evaluaters.

It must be set only with situation connects to be valued or estimated to be beneficial to be a friend or aqueintance for each myself of them.

Then, we should take care of our unconscious wall being apt to be caught in our unconscious indifference or irresponsible attitude to strangers or not so well-known ones for us, or the matters with which only the other people are connected, irrelevantly to us utterly.

But, even with those facts, anybody can easily change the mind when anybody suffers from the unexpected cold attitude from the other people, in being ascertained that myself withal was apt to take that attitude together to the other criticizers, except the one as each myself.
Why don’t we revise our uncouscious lazily arbitrary behavior to the one without any close relationship to us?

In people, generally speaking, only temporary gentle attitude could be easily done by anybody coz it’ s so unconscious and just a blunt manner, or official habitual acting to anybody many ones have take usually, but for the one who was taken it would be so anxious to the attitude, by and large.

But almost ones have never been awoken to self attitude doing impression to the one who was reacted. It’e essential truth that it is just pretention. Thus, the reacted ones should never be so annoyed with these, but the one who desperately has broke through the toughness is never apt to be so easy, so sorrily.

Thus, people’s unseen wall must be overcome with both sides effort with the one taking blunt behavior and rected one receiving that kind of attitude.

Coz it just a mind problem, and our will to take care of it so carefully to the next ones all for us.
Love to the next ones are truly so easy and simple but very forgettable to us. Thus, we should take them into account of our life thing, at a chance according to our awareness to our inherenty indwelling mind to be so cold and so indifferent to the strangers or never so close ones.

Our unconscious tendency is the biggest enemy to us who are trying to be gentle or so kind to the other person.

Surely, many nuisences surronds us to each other, then any gentle attitude is never so easily taken to all scenes of our daily life, but coz of it, any careless indifferent attitude is unexpected catch to all of us, namely unexpectedly that unconscious rudeness may have been a cause to be hostile to each other, we should keep that unnecessary trap to each other away from any of us, so really, it’s franky so loss and futime expenditure of our mental and spiritual energy, you know.

If we try to deliberate each nuisance so carefully, all of those blunt cold attitudes are never malicious, but at the time we are annoyed with another troublesomeness, we could never be able to discern true malice and never that thing so surely.

Possibly some of them must be bitter scream from the bottom of their heart with screaming one’s true mind, but sometimes it could be seen so ill-natured intending mind, but it must be just illusion, just only imagining thing, as unconscious fantasy on our mind, so we must take them into our account of our mind.

If we liten to so carefully to any other person’s voices, we must be able to discern true bitter shout or sad yell to the other one from all those kinds of fakes or so kind of pretention.

Let’s have generosity to each own feeling obliged to be take so bluntly unconscious cold behavior to the other ones who tries to contact us, so abruptly.
Coz, it must be tested by our Father or so, absolutely, you know.

(Mar. 11th., and additionally written at Apr. 24th. 2019)