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The Biggest Lesson in Life Part1

Real is so distanced to ideal or indeology, thus real society with human citizens is colored with prejudice, discrimination, ignorance, and violence. With these premises, this series would go on. First stage is about human-relation.


〇Whoever we know, not only strangers or other ones but also family members, the ones who try to contact you with implicit or explicit message that only you are the one who can know that contacting one’s particular circumstance would be absolutely the ones who you must stay away from when you are asked to liten to that one’s distress, as much as possible.
Otherwise, if you make you in an atmosphere to tempt the one who would be in a annoyance as a good asviser, so usually, coz it is caused from your showing behavior to make anyone who contacts you think that you are so generous as if Angels are, with your atmosphere meaning so pitiful than necessity, as your carelessness, that kind of your unnecessary behavior is so needlessly careless, thus you should keep distance and so appropriate mental ditch to keep you safer, to anyone who is the other one for you, at the matter of fact, you should convert your daily attitude to the other ones to that you can easily escape from any risly matter for you, as being so cool as individualists take to the ones around you.
If you fail to take that proper attitude, you must lose your true fortunate life so utterly eventually.


Because if you would be the one who help the wanted at large cos you make your attitude make anyone in desperate situation with that one’s false believe you so reliable by whatever that one was surrounded, you would never survive this severe and tough Capitalism and freedom society.


Once upon a time, many jew people was rescured by Chiune Sugihara coz of refugees from Natiz, that accident was so exceptional, but by and large, that kind of so exceptional matter would neve be provoked at ordinary days of us, so often, thus its pitiful help was another espetial case, you know.


〇In other words, human must never pretend to be the one who can pull the weakness from the other ones except each myself in showing a behavior.
That kind of behavior is priviledge by the priests or pastors or teacher of death penalty. Essentially detectives, procecutors, or mental doctors as physichiatrists or so should be so, but at this age, its range must never be anticipated so much.


Eventually, now that between anyone and another, there would be necessarily the distance the must never to go beyond, even at kin or family relation, so mutually, if that border was infringed to go over, that thing must never be done in abstain from going beyond the taboo, so mutually at any human relation by ourselves.


It is so absolutely grave ethical truth.


In other words, at so miserable developing, any relying one and any relied one was in the same sin, so richer ones who could support the ones in misfortune so easily and so poorer ones who wants to rely on, both must take its truth into their account, so mutually.


At the matter of fact, the behavior to pull the other one’s indulging unnecessary relying acts or behavings should never be invoked by anybody in our mutual social life, that cozy relation would be so danger. Coz these behaviors are never the affectionate mind nor, so kind of ethical love emotion as so differentiated dimensional matters, you know as bein the sin of us.


Note; In life, once or twice, so exceptional true lover of future hasband or wife, or in the relation with parents and children, so few chance to have a need to shorten the distance mutually for accomplishing something in relying to each other as maximally so extraordinarily exceptional case, but almost cases as 99.99999% would never be no cases as if that so exceptional one.
This ttuth should never be forgotten to our mind together.
(to be continued)


(Jun. 28th. 2019)