Each one’s imposed distress is never solved only with individual that one’s effort never someday done in left just all to be.
Otherwise, if that matter is so easily to be solved, we could never call it problem nor distress of our own life.

In other words, Dasein, Welt-in-sein are never born in choosing to an answer to the question which anyone want to be born or not beforehand they are born.
Thus, its so irresisitbel or so contradictory destiny which we could never choose any age to be born, gender as to be born, where to be born, in which ethnicity each is born, namely anyone must be born with individual distinct trait, coz anything must never be altered by ourselves so privately, life distress must be accompanied with each oneself all the lifetime until they each die.

Its question as being in distress must never be solved in any all lifetime, franky speaking, only it is right.
In conclusion, any individual life can be composed only on anybody has no choice but to survive with many unsolved distresses all lifetime.
To it, Sartre called no advantageous suffering in his text, Being and Nothing.

Thereby, we can have nothing but the sole left truth that we only can survive in compromising to everlasting unsolved problems in distress, just with our mindset never to commit a suicide by ourselves in its compromised disposal for each other.

In other words, we are at the matter of fact alive and survive only for knowing that we everlastingly would never be unhooken by our best solution toward any distress, for spending all time of our lifetime for being aware of that our life is just the contradictory life absolute reality or for doing so, we are obliged to be born irresistibly.

Paraphrasing it, how we can keep away from being in despair in keeping company with life distress in compromising wisdom and a dialogue to our distressive mind by our each oneself, only it is imposed to us all.
In conclusion, its thing is just the sole our own lifetime distress and mission to overcome and absolute destiny inevitable matter for us.

(May. 29th. 2019)