Love is truly tough.
Love and only caressing beloved object even as human are very different to each other.

I was scared of my father’s love when I was child.

It was thanking thing to me, but simultaneously it was felt so distanced to metaphysical love.

What is metaphysical love? It must be so cooler distanced love in watching gently, at the rate my father was very superior but simultaneously he got me in love deeper than necessity, that was a little my mind burden.

Concretely affection is anytime very pleasant and accepting it is never bad, simultaneously, truly intrinsic love must be present on another phase.

That is so difficult to express, only with few words.
It can never be expressed nor define by exact words.
It denies us in definition to one expression.

If we are surrounded by genuinely no doubt love, how could we feel so ease?
Will we keep so long time surviving it?

Truly deep love at a degree can approach, jealous and ardently passionate exciting emotion and it can easily contact hate and disgust, coz nobody can react so smartly, and so coolly.

Excessive love in anticipated than necessity, it is just extreme suffering to the one who is loved so much.
Really, loving emotion in keeping continuously must need so cool behavior.
But for meeting it, probably we need so stiff mind base. That would be incarnated love.
But why is it so, substantially?

Anybody can be perplexed to judge it so easily. No exact answer is only what we accept, coz we all are so enfeebled entity in fulfilling everything.
But at least we can see so essentially, incarnated love is never affordable, moreover it must be so rarely preciously and we can get it after long process to make an effort to doing with our own passion and will, even I can say so, believing in it, so certainly.

We anybody can never burden all so crucially genuine love.
Practically, and concretely, keeping love so exactly needs so cooler distance mutually.
That is either so tough.

Of course, love contains so various kinds of it, with mutual relations’ distinction, each particular love form must exist.

Love’s incarnation must be so tough, nobody can get it fulfilled so easily.

But somebody can get it once a lifespan, each one has each it, so privately.

Thus, it needs either only trusting, leaving the one as object to be loved by us privately.

It is so hard to specify according to case’s difference in relation, relevance or so.

Ultimately, all incarnated one means waiting for its natural ripening.
(to be continued)

Memo: I know that I’m never qualified to be true lover to someone, I’ve never fulfilled it ever, but just coz of it, I know it so well, I respect all who endures its going, no matter what takes place to them.

Charles Sanders Pearce told that all things are based on logics, and on it, ethics can be positioned, and the top on them is beauty. But this stepping with hierarchy is so tough, and never easy to get for anybody, although it must be either so daily something.

But for knowing it, we need so long never complete moments of us. That so long tough journey might be our life.
Just wishing to Lord must be needed to us, even I know, but even it is so tough, but we should believe in His genuine gentleness, just it, I can say now.

According to my private experience, very many affectionate philosophers, Gabriel Marcel, Emmanuel Levinas, and Michel Henri, we could be feeling some so certain pleasure in contacting tip of love. Probably you either have met that experience, even in your life, and it must be true your happiness to meet love, I believe in it.
(Feb. 15th. 2020)

About Charles Sanders Pearce, I got so precious teaching by so great Japanese social education researcher Hiroshi Kunii, then I really understood his idea and I could be interested in philosophy’s intrinsic idea and essential greatness. I express courtesy to his lesson to me, here.