〇In society, the one who is interested by some other one is not always interested in that someone. That consistently comes under all men for women and men, all women for men and women.

In other words, mind interested in somebody is universally so private thing, that character is so personal, necessarily than we imagine, actually.
Thus, it must be so selfish. Although human thing could never be honest in admitting its truth, coz we must survive, and for doing what we do all is never so minutely conscious, and it is apt to be forgotten.

That very privately unnecessary mind can easily be read by other ones, that one must be anytime so objective to us as the one concerned to that matter.
And because only third person can see it so easily objectively.
But only the one in question could never be so to the one.
That is very funny truth. In other words, making us do so, all individual ones in world are so blind only to each myself, coz we can never know usual our own face, coz we don’t take mirror in front of our own face.

〇Never yet, to what I showed before, we all are never so smart to see the interested one to us is apt to dislike us as interesting one to the one, in other words, we can never be so cooler objective only to each ourselves, as myself.

Thus, if we think it from contrary example, seeing myself so objectively makes us so secured and have a chance to advance us to upgraded phase.
That thing belongs to another dimension to updating for us. Updating ourselves can never be so hard for us to do, coz it can be easily caught to us, coz it is always directed to outside of ourselves, but what to be directed to inside of us as us, as seeing us so objectively is not so easy to do for us, so unexpectedly.
Because anytime we are busy in observing only external things to us, particularly to us when we concentrate our consciousness to someone whom we’re interested in.
(Mar. 12th. 2020)