As long as we interpret our nature that consists in inherently cognitively wicked nature, we should not try to understand wholeness of our own nature mutually at marriage occasion's partner as spouse demanding human relations, network or so.

Because confessing all things must fruit nothing, far from it, at any relevance, anybody could be injured at heart and mind. Because we are surviving mutually smartly compromising group. That implicitly awakened anybody's basic idea. Though, if we infringe it and try to confess everything, immanently anybody must be mentally smothered in any own occasion at personally managing any community gathering.

After all, each human should take distance to anyone as unit members.

That'd be intrinsically our social given protcol.

Extraction as pedigree or so could be either that identified or categorized thing. Or necessarily history of disease, both are probably what we should confess very restricted only reasoned, one or a few ones.

Here I'd like to show several human mind's uncontrollable factors' in sampling or typical examples.

One is obviously vanity. And it's derived from our mind's weak nature which tries to hide our own recognizable fault or shortage of ability. And generally anybodzwants to keep it secret for doing it so well. Human mind is prone to display otn appearance more superior or impressively better than really it is. None the less, the trial is not so enough sustainable. Because that shallow vanity abiding mind must reduce our mind's positively regarded modesty and necessary humble attitude to everything we aren't familiar with.

In frank, vanity makes us nothing. Because once we have it, somebody except us must see through its empty appearance. And evading it, indicating that thing taking an absurdity, anybody tries to patch up any shameful part we want to hide.

Though we necessarily lose honesty and earnest communication to anybody(that's the snobbism).

In conclusion, grossing over our own shortage is the most disadvantageous our action in society to anyone, any authority and any group. That unnecessary concoction must strangle us, in our daily normal life.

Confessing any not so bright unskillful, awkward part as untrained to us all are never shy things. Rather trying to show only our better parts than we really are is the most dangerous mind to us, and our own life spending generally in ordinary society (except d.g. espionage undercover.)

One more very typical human mind's weakness consists in prejudiced idea around other person, particularly not familiar one to us.

That unaccustomed contact makes us so violent at facing the one whose identity could be seen threatening our safety.

And the time our mind must be besieged with horror and preventive extreme reaction to the one. Unnecessarily felt contact to first meeting one makes us the specific mind. 

Because that introducing method is assorted at each locality abiding cultural gap. Then the gapped felt one's contact for gapped feeling owning one is seen so threatened, though the scared one could be easily seen violent.

In frank, there's the fare to the one whose identity ambigous though some unnecessary threatened mind toward our safety. The one's rivalry against us makes us simply horror. Because horror at seen kinky atmosphere for so felt one is just obvious nuisance.

The matter makes us extremely conservative idea for preventing us from danger and instinctively protective attitude is prone to be done to the one.

At least for spending normal human relationship, we should not have some unnecessary preoccupation to anyone as long as we can not feel so extremely dangerous situation.

(If this article is called so much at anticipant reaction, subsequent chance could be there.)

Dec. 10th.  2022