Parents are apt to love their children extrenely, but they frequentry are not noticed to their children's spontainity and true happiness.
However, their children has anytime completely independent idea, and they usually forget that truth although they are self confident to their love to their children.

In terms of truth we must never neglect, parents are apt to negelect their children's potentiality and really capable gift at practicing good deal, in other words, in deeply attached emotion to their children unconsciously drives them never trust their children's real talent, simply they make themselves encloud their belief though they rigidky believe it so correct, that must be human mind's blind site.

If parents certainly have self-confidence to believe their children, their acts or future should never be intervened even by their wishing nor hoping their children in a way to be, because their children's act, belief, future prospect essentially belongs to only their children, and all what they do must owe only to them.

Then, intrinsicly, truly believing our own children and doing in their belief must be so harder and very nasty to be done so easily to any parents.
Therefore, we should never our own affection, or gentle-minded emotion as sacred, nor holy, because that mind must be the thing immediately after we regard it as so, becoming selfish soothing or kind of safe food.

Nevertheless, actually anybody even in knowing it so well, is not so easily judging and acting only along with that knowledge nor belif, and that must be the essence of human as charactered biassed and incomplete presence of living thing.

In other words, in these all entangled truth, homo-sapiens's the most somewhat not to be overcome by us, so easily.
Hence, we need reason, or to say, kind of calming down in consciously mindset, or so must be necessary.

In other words, parents should be the ones whose children should be adviced only when they are really in distress, additionally only in the case their it must be so difficult for anybody in whirlpool.
(to be continued)

(Nov. 11th. 2020)